nonbinarypastels:
when we talk about how people are allowed to learn from their mistakes, admit they were wrong, and grow to be a better person that 100% has to apply to older adults as well as young kids/teens.
there’s no age where it’s too late for someone to change.
there’s no age where once a person has grown past it they are no longer allowed to ever make mistakes or make up for them.
there’s no age where once a person has grown past it they are no longer to ever have any change in their beliefs.
change and growth are not things that only young people can do and they are not things that we should only support in young people. holding something some said 5, 10, 20 years ago against them when they’ve already apologized for it and moved on from it is just as fucked up if you’re doing it to someone in their 20s or someone in their 40s or older.